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As a child, my grandmother always nagging in my ear what "you can say it again" "there is a skeleton in the cupboard" members at home, even when there is friction, but in general the sound is harmonious, but do not know since when, between family quarrel is more intense, the contradiction can not be harmonic slowly evolved to white hot, once still loving father, faithful son, the scene seems to exist in my memoryDr. Liao Sheung Kwan.

Once naive to think that, maybe our family will have many such quarrels, but with the growth of age, gradually understand to door window and other stores to hide behind, all more or less dispute and quarrel -- for profit, as a rough or one's private ends. Chinese family concept since they rooted in every family, every family is the epitome of a small society, father and son, brothers, sisters, mothers and daughters in law...... A broken bone connecting network reinforcement in the eyes of Chinese people, is the fundamental about life, because the root, we are destined to bear more.

In my life in our home town, is a special existenceAsian college of knowledge management. My grandparents have forced to live and be forced to leave one's hometown to the northwest frontier support construction, so the father generation of five brothers and sisters be deeply attached to each other, the filial piety sensible, in the distant Gobi is enviable Chinese family model; in the seventy's, China and Soviet relations deteriorated, he thought over and over again, with a you son of bumps for seven days and seven nights returning to homeland, because the long separation, the relative poor contact, so our family especially Mi Jane, a much told tale. When he was young father with a drive, with five brothers and sisters in arms, built the first building in our city. My home is the sun, my coming to this originally happy family added more joy, uncle aunts to me than should parentsCCIBA.

Then the family is more and more big, more and more married son, aunt, uncle separation, building after the repair, the courtyard and tree flowers, or the original housing, can be the same under the eaves of the family also like the air from the portal with time outside leakage. I looked at Uncle aunts and grandparents quarrel pats the table, listening to their parents between the words ", do not understand how the world really is? For profit? For breath? Do not seem. And who always seemed to be this: can easily forgive people condemn both in speech and in writing, but not for their loved ones to be tolerant; can think others fault, but must use the language most sharp criticism of the most intimate person mistake.

There is a saying "love is deep, cutting of the responsibility", I never agree. Because of the so-called "pro", is born from the beginning in our life are often see people, "Shuowen" solution "pro" for "to" meaning, affective Ken to said "to", it needs to close, how many years, how long the weal and woe Tongzhou, we can become a beloved? Love is a long and hard, but lost in the mouth of the blame is a knife, we can use for a lifetime time to warm a person, and the damage is only anger escape one's lips a sentence, a casual look, and the family, the most can not stand is that beat. People often say that "love hate", many people will feel the mood? For loved ones, we will complain, but rarely to hate, only the clips with Pro resentment, and does not leave, can not break, more bitter than hate more astringent, how many injuries, only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches.

Have a talk about home everything, small aunt said: "is it right? Because the brothers and sisters get older, have their own home, former sister love you never get it back?" My aunt explained: "not because feelings are gone, but for longer, feelings of being diluted, to more people."

But I don't think so, I understand the affection, is a after the storm is still as old worry, couples may quarrel, friends may become enemies, and only this hint of blood, even become a passer-by, also cannot pretend to pay no heed. Don't need too much material from, Hello, I have a wish, you is not good, I send a greeting, that's it.
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